Bully Dialogues is both a groundbreaking live keynote presentation and a compelling podcast hosted by Bryan Schimmel, a former victim, and Clinton Fein, his former bully. 

This rare collaboration brings both perspectives to the forefront, challenging conventional narratives around bullying. Through raw, unfiltered dialogue, they expose the emotional, psychological, and social complexities of bullying—why it happens, how it shapes lives, and what can be done to reduce the harm. 

Whether in person or on their podcast, Bully Dialogues goes beyond blame and punishment, sparking difficult yet necessary conversations that redefine how we address bullying in schools, workplaces, sports, and social media.

Bryan Schimmel & Clinton Fein

Meet Bryan Schimmel and Clinton Fein, the duo behind the revolutionary presentation/performance that has captivated audiences across schools, conferences, and corporations alike, rewriting the narrative of victimhood and bullying.

Bryan Schimmel

Bryan Schimmel is a celebrated and multi-award-winning music director, arranger, and musical performer in South Africa who has conducted major productions across the globe.

Clinton Fein

Clinton Fein is a renowned writer and artist who has lived in the USA for the past 38 years. He has exhibited his work in major cities around the world. He is also an activist who has successfully championed social issues against the US Navy and the US Government before the US Supreme Court.

Transforming Pain into Power: A Remarkable Journey

01

The Background

Bryan and Clinton's story begins at a high school where bullying was an all-too-common occurrence. Bryan, once a victim of relentless bullying, and Clinton, his bully

02

The Reconciliation

It was only decades later before an unexpected reconciliation uncovered their shared vulnerabilities and discovered the potential for growth and transformation.

03

The Keynote

Their critically acclaimed keynote is an emotional journey that resonates deeply with audiences, sparking conversations about empathy, forgiveness, and the true cost of bullying.

Bully Dialogues In Action

Bullying in the Workplace

Bully Dialogues provides insights into the physical, psychological, and emotional harm caused by bullying. It takes a deeper dive into corporate bullying – what it is and how it manifests in both micro and macro aggressions.

The presentation elaborates on the hidden costs of bullying, and the benefits and tangible outcomes of managing bullying including improved morale, enhanced productivity, and more supportive and enriching environments.

Bullying at School

The Bully Dialogues keynote and complementary podcast promotes a Harm Reduction approach to school bullying which has proven to be highly effective in creating a powerful and positive impact on learners, teachers, parents, and administrators.

This approach focuses on raising awareness, building leadership through empathy and establishing a safe and inclusive school environment through conflict resolution strategies that involve all stakeholders.

The #iWas campaign

Join us in a transformative journey of self-awareness and change.

In our quest to reduce the harm from bullying, we invite you to take a moment to reflect on your own experiences.

Were you once a bully, a victim, or a bystander? Your story can inspire change, healing, and empathy. Together, let's #BreakTheSilenceOnBullying! #Iwas #IWasABully #IWasAVictim #IWasABystander

The Keynote That Changed Everything

The impact of their initial presentation was so profound that Bryan and Clinton were inundated with requests for encores.

What began as a one-time performance blossomed into a career as they adapted their keynote presentation to accommodate the different schools, conferences, and corporations inviting them to deliver their keynote.

Audiences are drawn to their authenticity, moved by their story of redemption, and inspired to tackle the pressing issue of bullying head-on. So much so the National Arts Council of South Africa funded five presentations to underprivileged schools, this included St. Vincent’s School for the Deaf, using sign language interpreters. 

The Bully Dialogues Podcast

Bully Dialogues is hosted by Bryan Schimmel and Clinton Fein, who share their deeply personal stories that led them to create this groundbreaking podcast. Bryan, a former victim of bullying, and Clinton, a former bully, come together to tackle the complex realities of bullying from both perspectives—a rare and powerful collaboration.

Through candid and heartfelt conversations, they explore how bullying shaped their lives, why it continues to impact so many, and what inspired them to take a stand. This podcast dives into the emotional, psychological, and social layers of bullying.